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Two friends were having a chat in the middle on night – yeah, that’s right. Malam masih muda…

One of them was trying to send her friend a file but unfortunately the sending was not succeeded.  So ..

H (9/19/2010 8:30:02 PM): nah la saya gantikan dgn kasi awak tgk wedding comel *sending her friend several links from fb.

H (9/19/2010 8:30:39 PM): x tau ah awak rasa camne

H (9/19/2010 8:30:47 PM): tp saya tgk terasa Islam nya di situ

n (9/19/2010 8:31:24 PM): ooh, berdebar

n (9/19/2010 8:31:30 PM): ingat majlis cik H

H (9/19/2010 8:31:34 PM): HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

H (9/19/2010 8:31:36 PM): xde maknanya

n (9/19/2010 8:31:38 PM): takpun mjlis adik ipar

H (9/19/2010 8:31:43 PM): dok aih

n (9/19/2010 8:31:45 PM): bila nye ni nak buat akd

H (9/19/2010 8:31:47 PM): bukan family pun

n (9/19/2010 8:31:53 PM): sayang dah sayang sangat dengan adik ipar

n (9/19/2010 8:32:00 PM): siap dah mengaku, declair bagai

H (9/19/2010 8:32:01 PM): tu la kan

H (9/19/2010 8:32:08 PM): saya nak jd agen baitulmuslim

H (9/19/2010 8:32:22 PM): kalau ikut adik saya

n (9/19/2010 8:32:29 PM): haaa

H (9/19/2010 8:32:30 PM): dia nak nikah b4 budak tu fly hari tu

n (9/19/2010 8:32:33 PM): mesti dia nak sekarang

H (9/19/2010 8:32:35 PM): tp parents x bg

n (9/19/2010 8:32:36 PM): dan dan jugak

n (9/19/2010 8:32:38 PM): asap

n (9/19/2010 8:32:40 PM): betul tak?

H (9/19/2010 8:32:46 PM): tu ah

H (9/19/2010 8:32:56 PM): d girl pun b4 fly hari tu kata x nak cepat2

H (9/19/2010 8:33:01 PM): nak bernafas dulu katanya

H (9/19/2010 8:33:11 PM): plus diorang x kenal each other

H (9/19/2010 8:33:14 PM): jumpa pun x

H (9/19/2010 8:33:16 PM): tp la ni

H (9/19/2010 8:33:24 PM): bila da sampai bumi US tu baru nyesal

H (9/19/2010 8:33:28 PM): nak kawin skrg katanya

n (9/19/2010 8:34:17 PM): meh sampaikan salam perantau dari saya kepada beliau

n (9/19/2010 8:34:22 PM): dengan peribahasa sekali

H (9/19/2010 8:34:25 PM): ok boleh2

n (9/19/2010 8:34:39 PM): menyesal dahulu pendapatan menyesal sekarang ubat guna guna pun tak berguna lagi

n (9/19/2010 8:35:12 PM): lepas tu bagi pantun sekali ek, yang terlajak perahu boleh diundur tu

H (9/19/2010 8:35:17 PM): mak ai

H (9/19/2010 8:35:22 PM): byk btul ni hahahahaha

n (9/19/2010 8:35:46 PM): habis tu macamana boleh dua dua tu kenal?

n (9/19/2010 8:35:55 PM): diorang langsung tak cntact ke?

H (9/19/2010 8:35:57 PM): oh

H (9/19/2010 8:36:02 PM): saya kenal budak tu dulu

H (9/19/2010 8:36:05 PM): thru her blog

n (9/19/2010 8:36:06 PM): ececcey

nadzir nadzirah (9/19/2010 8:36:09 PM): suspek la

H (9/19/2010 8:36:14 PM): pastu saya kenal la dia

n (9/19/2010 8:36:16 PM): siap pilihan hati kakak ipar lagi

H (9/19/2010 8:36:20 PM): kawan2 for few days

H (9/19/2010 8:36:24 PM): pastu berkenan

H (9/19/2010 8:36:32 PM): sbb budak ni senang btul kita nak sayang

H (9/19/2010 8:36:52 PM): so yeah budak ni byk bukak mata saya ah

H (9/19/2010 8:36:59 PM): sbb saya lama da menyimpang jauh2

H (9/19/2010 8:37:04 PM): dia tarik saya slow2

n (9/19/2010 8:37:05 PM): alalalaa...comelnye budak ni

H (9/19/2010 8:37:11 PM): alhamdulillah ah byk dia ajar saya

H (9/19/2010 8:37:26 PM): saya saja2 suggest adik saya n suggest dia kat FB

H (9/19/2010 8:37:49 PM): pastu saya ingat habis gitu je

n (9/19/2010 8:37:50 PM): bagus2 tu yang sepatutnya bila ahli keluarga dah berkenan senang cerita

H (9/19/2010 8:37:59 PM): sbb x mungkin la d girl nak suka adik saya

H (9/19/2010 8:38:07 PM): sbb family kitorang sgt berbeza dgn dia

H (9/19/2010 8:38:14 PM): n dia tau semua da saya bgtau siap

H (9/19/2010 8:38:18 PM): so ada sehari tu

H (9/19/2010 8:38:21 PM): tiba2 dia pesan

H (9/19/2010 8:38:25 PM): suh saya ckp kat adik

H (9/19/2010 8:38:30 PM): buat solat istikharah

H (9/19/2010 8:38:34 PM): KENA buat katnya

H (9/19/2010 8:38:48 PM): so yeah start tu ah masing2 mcm positif

H (9/19/2010 8:38:53 PM): adik saya balik dr jepun

H (9/19/2010 8:39:01 PM): dia cuma beli barang utk kitorang 1 family je

H (9/19/2010 8:39:05 PM): tiba2 ada 1 plastik

H (9/19/2010 8:39:10 PM): barang perempuan!

H (9/19/2010 8:39:23 PM): rupanya sehari b4 d girl fly

H (9/19/2010 8:39:27 PM): baru dia kasi saya

H (9/19/2010 8:39:35 PM): rupanya utk bakal adik ipar barang tu

H (9/19/2010 8:39:45 PM): cam comel ah

n (9/19/2010 8:39:47 PM): nama pun sweet

H (9/19/2010 8:39:51 PM): sbb adik saya x reti dgn perempuan

n (9/19/2010 8:39:55 PM): bagus;la kakak ni

H (9/19/2010 8:40:00 PM): ces

n (9/19/2010 8:40:02 PM): ada tokoh kakak mithali ni

H (9/19/2010 8:40:02 PM): kakak kedekut

H (9/19/2010 8:40:07 PM): x nak share adik langsung

n (9/19/2010 8:40:13 PM): saya vote untuk anugerah maal hijrah tahun depan

H (9/19/2010 8:40:14 PM): tp tu ah budak ni jampi apa ntah

H (9/19/2010 8:40:19 PM): kakak okay trus

H (9/19/2010 8:41:03 PM): tp nya

H (9/19/2010 8:41:09 PM): adik saya sangat LAMBAT

H (9/19/2010 8:41:17 PM): sbb d girl pun mcm pelik2 da

H (9/19/2010 8:41:23 PM): dia ni serius ke apa ni

H (9/19/2010 8:41:28 PM): adik saya x tegur dia lgsg

H (9/19/2010 8:41:31 PM): wpun da ada fb

H (9/19/2010 8:41:49 PM): tp at d same time

H (9/19/2010 8:41:49 PM): dia suh tny size jari budak tu

H (9/19/2010 8:41:49 PM): suh mak saya hantar tanda la

H (9/19/2010 8:41:50 PM): nak nikah la

H (9/19/2010 8:42:02 PM): so mcm ustazah sorang tu pelik da

H (9/19/2010 8:42:10 PM): pastu masa dia nak fly

H (9/19/2010 8:42:19 PM): mak saya suh adik pegi klia sama2 dgn kitorang

H (9/19/2010 8:42:32 PM): nak kenal n tunjuk muka ah sbb parents d girl tau da psl niat adik saya

H (9/19/2010 8:42:37 PM): tp adik x nak

H (9/19/2010 8:42:49 PM): dia kata mak pergi ah tgk kan dia utk adik

H (9/19/2010 8:42:53 PM): tlg nilaikan dia utk adik

n (9/19/2010 8:43:54 PM): boleh masuk cerekrama drama contoh untuk mencari jodoh

H(9/19/2010 8:44:03 PM): ces

H (9/19/2010 8:44:07 PM): byk episod tu

n (9/19/2010 8:44:12 PM): ni tak pernah tengok muka langsung la ni

H (9/19/2010 8:44:13 PM): sbb hero LAMBAT

H (9/19/2010 8:44:18 PM): dah tgk

H (9/19/2010 8:44:21 PM): kat facebook

n (9/19/2010 8:44:41 PM): tapi berkenannya bila?

H (9/19/2010 8:44:48 PM): tux tau

H (9/19/2010 8:44:57 PM): x sure la cik n

H (9/19/2010 8:44:59 PM): saya x penah tny

H (9/19/2010 8:45:34 PM): ni gamba sesi besan bertemu di klia

H (9/19/2010 8:45:56 PM): tgk tangan mak saya!

n (9/19/2010 8:46:03 PM): amboi

H (9/19/2010 8:46:06 PM): confident je pegang tangan mak dia

n (9/19/2010 8:46:06 PM): bersimpul rapat

n (9/19/2010 8:46:09 PM): macam kembar siam

n (9/19/2010 8:46:13 PM): boleh lepas tak tu

H (9/19/2010 8:46:13 PM): n baca komen mak saya kat bawah tu

n (9/19/2010 8:46:23 PM): seronok saya tengok

n (9/19/2010 8:46:28 PM): saya doakan yang terbaik

H (9/19/2010 8:46:33 PM): saya pun lega tgk

H (9/19/2010 8:46:42 PM): tu la kalau ni mmg jodoh terbaik diorang

H (9/19/2010 8:46:48 PM): mudah2 an dipermudahkan la

H (9/19/2010 8:46:54 PM): cam comel gak

n (9/19/2010 8:46:57 PM): betul2

H (9/19/2010 8:46:58 PM): sbb saya x suka unsur kegatalan

n (9/19/2010 8:47:05 PM): saya tak layan jiwang

n (9/19/2010 8:47:27 PM): so drama ni pass untuk my latest project untuk production house saya

H (9/19/2010 8:47:35 PM): cesss

n (9/19/2010 8:47:49 PM): hero pun slow

n (9/19/2010 8:47:58 PM): slow and steady wins the race

H (9/19/2010 8:48:09 PM): harap2 ah

H (9/19/2010 8:48:17 PM): saya bgtau d girl

H (9/19/2010 8:48:24 PM): kalau nak lelaki comel2 ayat

H (9/19/2010 8:48:28 PM): mmg bukan adik saya la

H (9/19/2010 8:48:35 PM): dia tipical kg boy

n (9/19/2010 8:48:40 PM): honesty is the best policy

H (9/19/2010 8:48:41 PM): jenis bahasa skema kasar

n (9/19/2010 8:48:53 PM):  jujur kunci cinta

H (9/19/2010 8:48:55 PM): tp saya slalu pesan adik

n (9/19/2010 8:49:01 PM): ni bukan karangan, tak payah mengayat

H (9/19/2010 8:49:02 PM): dgn perempuan ckp biar berlapik

H (9/19/2010 8:49:06 PM): sbb perempuan hati lembut

H (9/19/2010 8:49:09 PM): kang terasa

H (9/19/2010 8:49:45 PM): so bunga terasa dgn kumbang tu kadang2

n (9/19/2010 8:50:32 PM): kalau macam tu kena cakap dengan dua dua

H (9/19/2010 8:50:41 PM): saya ckp da kat adik

n (9/19/2010 8:50:43 PM): sorang kena slow talk, be gentle

H (9/19/2010 8:50:45 PM): n ckp gak kat d girl

n (9/19/2010 8:50:50 PM): pompuan ni kena handle with care

n (9/19/2010 8:51:00 PM): yang sorang lagi kena beljar terima seadanya

H (9/19/2010 8:51:10 PM): exactly what i said!

H (9/19/2010 8:51:20 PM): saya pun baru tau

H (9/19/2010 8:51:28 PM): ustazah tu sgt super sensitif rupanya

H (9/19/2010 8:51:32 PM): tp comel sbb dia kata

H (9/19/2010 8:51:46 PM): saya x kisah org lain kak h,dgn dia (adik saya) je saya kisah

H (9/19/2010 8:52:15 PM): dia sgt cool tau

H (9/19/2010 8:52:23 PM): tu saya tkejut ah bila tgk this side of her

n (9/19/2010 8:52:32 PM): tu mesti sebab orang lain dia tak concern tapi dengan pak cik engineer ni dia concern lebih

H (9/19/2010 8:52:37 PM): so rasanya mmg adik saya dah ada tempat la dlm hati budak perempuan tu

H (9/19/2010 8:53:21 PM): n yg buat saya lg suka kalau diorang menjadi

H (9/19/2010 8:53:28 PM): sbb family dia tu baik gila2

H (9/19/2010 8:53:35 PM): lega saya kalau adik saya masuk keluarga tu

H (9/19/2010 8:53:41 PM): byk dia bloe "blaja"

n (9/19/2010 8:55:31 PM): amin, saya doakan juga

n (9/19/2010 8:56:10 PM): give them time

n (9/19/2010 8:56:16 PM): iA nanti diorang akan bese

n (9/19/2010 8:56:37 PM): dalam marriage pun the 1st 2 years is the supercrucial one

H (9/19/2010 8:56:50 PM): yeah,setuju!

H (9/19/2010 8:56:58 PM): bukan senang nak hidup dgn org

H (9/19/2010 8:57:01 PM): kena blaja

H (9/19/2010 8:57:03 PM): sabar

n (9/19/2010 8:57:18 PM): betul2

n (9/19/2010 8:57:48 PM): tambah2 lagi yang kita tak pernah hidup bersama, bebeza-beza

n (9/19/2010 8:58:00 PM): takpe2, nant boleh cuba carik titik penyatuan

n (9/19/2010 8:58:24 PM): that's the challenge

n (9/19/2010 8:58:49 PM): berbeza adalah rahmat

n (9/19/2010 8:58:57 PM): yang penting saling cuba memahami

then, there came this topic…

H (9/19/2010 9:09:06 PM): keje cik n laku wo!

H (9/19/2010 9:09:10 PM): mak2 pak2 mertua suka

n (9/19/2010 9:09:33 PM): keluarga mertua dulu may be suka

n (9/19/2010 9:09:40 PM): sekarang may be tak

n (9/19/2010 9:09:44 PM): sebab keje sibuk

n (9/19/2010 9:09:55 PM): asyik jaga benda lain sapa nak jaga anak dia?

n (9/19/2010 9:11:37 PM): tapi attitude tu kadang yang masalah

n (9/19/2010 9:11:44 PM): sebab dia selalu bajet bz

n (9/19/2010 9:12:05 PM): nak selalu orang faham kerja dia yang bajet mencabar dan antara hidup dan mati ni

H (9/19/2010 9:12:13 PM): pe lg

n (9/19/2010 9:12:13 PM): ish, tu yang kadang berantakan tu

H (9/19/2010 9:12:18 PM): buktikan ah diorang salah

H (9/19/2010 9:12:27 PM): bg awak

H (9/19/2010 9:12:30 PM): mana lg penting

H (9/19/2010 9:12:35 PM): family ke career?

n (9/19/2010 9:12:35 PM): ye ye

n (9/19/2010 9:12:53 PM): saya akan buktikan dengan evdnce based study

n (9/19/2010 9:12:56 PM): dan dan je

H (9/19/2010 9:13:07 PM): cessssssss hhahahahaha

H (9/19/2010 9:13:11 PM): ha jwb

H (9/19/2010 9:13:14 PM): mana lg penting?

n (9/19/2010 9:13:18 PM): erm erm

n (9/19/2010 9:13:26 PM): clear throat dulu

n (9/19/2010 9:13:37 PM): seperti kata thesis supervisor saya

H (9/19/2010 9:13:38 PM): over

n (9/19/2010 9:13:48 PM): yang penting pada wanita adalah keluarga

n (9/19/2010 9:13:56 PM): itu peak kehidupan seorang wanita

H (9/19/2010 9:14:01 PM): setuju

n (9/19/2010 9:14:14 PM): melengkapi function dia sebagai seorang anak, isteri, ibu

H (9/19/2010 9:14:23 PM): perghhhhhhh

H (9/19/2010 9:14:27 PM): jawapan terbaik ah!

H (9/19/2010 9:14:29 PM): clap clap

n (9/19/2010 9:14:33 PM): ececceey

n (9/19/2010 9:14:41 PM): macam ni kene letak kat fb ni

H (9/19/2010 9:14:52 PM): nnt saya LIKE:

n (9/19/2010 9:15:10 PM): banyak la

then, talked about food, culture and language…

n (9/19/2010 10:36:34 PM): tak pun perencah dia kut yang buat sakit perut tu

H (9/19/2010 10:36:34 PM): sbb org nogori kan

H (9/19/2010 10:36:39 PM): cili tu celah gigi je

n (9/19/2010 10:37:17 PM): ececey

n (9/19/2010 10:37:23 PM): yo yo ekau ni

H (9/19/2010 10:37:38 PM): proud to be Nogorian

n (9/19/2010 10:37:44 PM): saya minang tapi bukan nogori

H (9/19/2010 10:37:53 PM): i see

And after awhile…

n (9/19/2010 10:38:23 PM): gila power bahasa minang anda

n (9/19/2010 10:38:29 PM): terus saya kelu dan surrender

H (9/19/2010 10:38:30 PM): x ah

H (9/19/2010 10:38:32 PM): x lawan kankeikan

H (9/19/2010 10:38:35 PM): saya basic je

H (9/19/2010 10:38:40 PM): yg pekat2 saya x faham

n (9/19/2010 10:38:44 PM): kalau ikut ranking, lepas kankeikan cik h la

n (9/19/2010 10:38:48 PM): yang corot tu saya la

n (9/19/2010 10:38:51 PM): buek malu yo

H (9/19/2010 10:38:51 PM): ces

H (9/19/2010 10:38:55 PM): saya duk sana dulu

H (9/19/2010 10:39:02 PM): mmg murtad ah if x reti langsung

n (9/19/2010 10:40:01 PM): alaaa janganla nogorian

n(9/19/2010 10:40:10 PM): minangeit la

H (9/19/2010 10:40:15 PM): mak ai

n (9/19/2010 10:40:21 PM): baru den ghaso part of it

H (9/19/2010 10:40:22 PM): nogorian sounds better weh

H (9/19/2010 10:42:45 PM): ahahahaha cesssss

n (9/19/2010 10:43:14 PM): rendah diri pulak speaking minang dengan orang pro ni

n (9/19/2010 10:43:20 PM): saya imatur

H (9/19/2010 10:43:22 PM): chait

H (9/19/2010 10:43:25 PM): xde makna

H (9/19/2010 10:43:29 PM): ye2 saya kembali rojak

n (9/19/2010 10:43:42 PM): eh takpe2

n (9/19/2010 10:43:47 PM): sila la berbahasa jiwa bangsa

n (9/19/2010 10:43:51 PM): boleh saya belajar

n (9/19/2010 10:48:07 PM): apesal kita borak macam orang tua ni h.

and last but not least, finally they realized it. Life is too short. At one point they were babies, crying for attention and love, and at the other point, in a blink of time, they already grew up, facing all the hardship and obstacles in life.

Since life is so short, therefore, please make others happy; maintain the dynamics of the relationship, avoiding negativity and bad aura and try to make others smile, with little time they provide to ask about each other’s doing, they would never know, how much they have learnt about this subject called life. Learning and sharing are the greatest medicine of all ^_^. While being moody, pissed and the urge to always be on top will usually hurt both parties.

Cukup-cukuplah bagi arahan, nak minta, minta baik-baik, hargai orang lain dengan simple greeting and thank others. Tak payah bajet busy and stop thinking too much of oneself. Manusia takut untuk disakiti dan sedikit mementingkan diri, mereka akan cuba menjaga perasaan mereka, tanpa sedar ada hati yang terluka.

*To those are about to get married, sorry I couldn’t make it but I’m really happy for you. Indeed, there’s nothing more that I could ask, other than hoping that both of the newlyweds, a blissful marriage and wedding…  kudos