Tuesday, August 28, 2007

aNaK keCiL itU...

“mak cik irah, nak tanya skit. Cikgu fikri cakap kat school yang we da Muslims tak bole ikut cara orang non Muslims, betul tak?”

dia yang baru je selesai breakfast and intended to read da newspaper dengan perlahan put it back on da dining table.

“yup dear,” jawabnya ringkas sambil merenung fikri. “it means yang kite pun tak boleh la nak kawin dengan diorang,” “again, u are rite young man.” Dia mengangguk. Mata masih memerhati fikri yang sibuk berfikir sambil mengerutkan kening.

“Fikri, now tell ur mak cik irah wut’s in ur mind, darling?” “tapi mak cik irah, apsal pulak tak boleh?” kali ni pandangan mata fikri jatuh tepat ke dalam anak matanya. Ok, now is da rite time for sum revelation on da 11 and ½ year-old school boy, a very heavy topic but in a pretty relaxing atmosphere of Sunday morning.

Orait, first clear da throat. “meh sini sit next to mak cik on da couch.” Daniel fikri dilihat perlahan turun dari seat di dining hall terus ambil tempat di sebelahnya. “ memula mak cik nak tanya fikri, wut do u understand bout marriage?” “ermmm, just like mak and ayah.” “ ok, if mak and ayah quarreling, fighting with one another, fikri suke tak?” “tak, fikri tak suke tengok orang gaduh. Fikri takut, nanti fikri nangis,” anak kecik itu mencebik sambil menggeleng kepala.

“That’s why tak boleh kawin orang yang different religion dengan kite. Kite tak nak nanti diorang fighting, quarreling sebab different ideology on how to run the life. Nanti tak pepasal their children plak will get da consequences, like wut u were saying just now. Takut nanti anak2 diorang rase takut, nak nangis tengok parents diorang macam tu.bukan tu je nanti diorang confuse mak ajar lain, ayah ajar lain ikut ajaran memasing”

“The Jews call 'Uzair a son of Allah, and the Christians call Christ the son of Allah. That is a saying from their mouth; (in this) they but imitate what the unbelievers of old used to say. Allah's curse be on them: how they are deluded away from the Truth!” at Taubah (repentance) 9:30.

“do u get it babe?” tangannya diangkat untuk mengusap rambut fikri. Tubuh kecil itu ditarik perlahan rapat ke arahnya. “now look at me. Marriage is a very complicated story in human history. Sum times, bende kecik pun boleh jadik besar. Apentah lagi bende yang memang originally besar macam aqidah ni.aqidah means ape yang kite percaya. For the Moslems, we do believe that there is no God but Allah and da prophet Muhammad pbuh is da messenger of Allah. But not everybody shares da same thought with us, not everybody is in da same boat with us.” Dia berhenti sejenak, menghela nafas.

“Allah tu Tuhannya mak cik, Tuhannya mak and ayah, Tuhannya fikri forever. Tuhan sumer orang Islam. One and only. Nobody can take the belief away from u unless u let it. Even though how much u like a person in future, jangan sampai ur love for her overpowers ur love
to da Lord Above, clear yang?”

“Say: If it be that your fathers, your sons, your brothers, your mates, or your kindred; the wealth that ye have gained; the commerce in which ye fear a decline: or the dwellings in which ye delight - are dearer to you than Allah, or His Messenger, or the striving in His cause; - then wait until Allah brings about His decision: and Allah guides not the rebellious.” At Taubah (repentance) 9:24

And Anis (RA) reported that the Prophet (SAW) said:
"None of you will have faith until he has more love for me than for his parents, his children, and all humanity." (Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim)

Ups, guess not. She saw fikri struggling to get her point. Ok, another shot, “macam ni, fikri kalau sayanggg sangat kat orang tu, ape fikri nak buat?” dengan berhati-hati dia bertanya. “fikri nak cherish orang tu, jaga dia, gembirakan hati dia, tak mo buat dia angry or sad dengan fikri..” “u’r rite indeed, fikri if possible nak always be with the fella kan?Bukan kat dunia je tapi kalau boleh fikri nak sama dengan dia kat dalam syurga gak kan, am I rite or am I rite?” sambil tangannya laju mencuit hidung fikri.

“mestila, teacher said orang yang baik tempatnye kat dalam syurga. Mesti la fikri nak dok kat tempat yang banyak orang baik,”balas fikri spontaneously sambil mengelak hidungnya dari dicuit. “okeh then wut ur teacher said bout orang yang tak beriman dengan Allah?” matanya kembali mencerun memandang fikri yang kembali mengerutkan dahi.

“If a person died without bear witnessing that there is no God but Allah and Muhammad is da messenger of Allah then orang tu directly go straight to hell. Become hell-dweller forever.” “So, fikri suke tak if one day fikri get married with a non Moslem girl then at the end of da day, she can’t be with u in heaven. Fikri kene ingat even how big da sins u made as long as u still have ur belief, insya Allah fikri still stands a chance to enter heaven but it’s not applicable to ur girl...”

“oh, jadi if fikri still wanna be with da gal fikri kene kawin dengan Moslem gal jugak la,” huh, finally. “Yup love, so u got da point. This is not da issue of kebebasan beragama, individual right to choose any kinda way to run each life but ini issue kasih dan sayang. Harap berpanjangan sampai ke syurga.”

”Women impure are for men impure, and men impure for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity: these are not affected by what people say: for them there is forgiveness and a provision honorable” an Noor (the light) 24:26

Bahu fikri disentuh lembut. “bile Islam forbids interreligious marriage, tu bukan nak kongkong buat tu tak boleh, buat ni tak boleh. Marriage is a congregation. A good concrete congregation formed when everybody in it has one similar belief and driving force. Nak gembira kat dunia, nak bahagia sesama kat akhirat. Am i rite?”

Fikri mengangguk perlahan. Memula memang dah budget nak close da session tapi belum sempat nak bukak mulut fikri dah tanya another question, fikri...fikri. bertuah bijak bestari sungguh anak sedara yang sorang ni. “tapi if fikri dah suka sangat kat orang tu, camne? Macam kat tv, yang even though parents diorang tak kasik pun diorang memarah parents diorang, sian kat mak and ayah diorang...”

“if fikri suke kat orang tu, nak yang da best for da fella, jadi fikri kene work hard make sure dapat sama dengan orang tu kat akhirat. Bukan takat main doa je, tapi kene usaha. Bagitau kat dia pasal islam, belikan dia Islamic books yang dapat give correct interpretation of Islam, ajak pi seminar so that she could get to know Islam a bit deeper not merely on da surface, buy her Koran, da English version one and not to forget to watch out ur behavior as well young man. Jangan misleading buat perangai tak senonoh. Nanti orang ingat tu la Islamic teaching, dah jadi fitnah kat islam kan? Dosa tau give bad impression of Islam to others”

fikri tetiba je dia tengok macam dah mengantuk, overload new knowledge la ni. Berat sangat topic hari ni. Dia tak nafikan, nak jawab kat bebudak pun macam nak pi amik test anatomy, gelabah semacam je. Rase cukupla takat tu je untuk fikri ni, “okeh, last but not least, mak cik irah nak bagitau yang kasih sayang dalam islam sangat besar maknanya. Kenapa sayang orang tu, coz orang tu satu aqidah dengan kita. Sebab tu kite tak worry but more to concern, jaga dia so dia will always be on da rite track, kalau salah maafkan, kalau lupa ingatkan, kalau tatau tunjukkan. Slalu kene doa, tak boleh lalai supaya fikri, makcik irah, ayah, mak, opah and sumer orang yang kita sayangi sentiasa disayangi Allah jugak, supaya sumer boleh masuk syurga Firdaus jugak”

Dia tersenyum merenung fikri, “kadang2 tak on da spot Allah kabulkan doa kite. Jadik kene doa banyak kali, beribu-ribu kali, kene bangun malam, kene bersedekah, banyak2 buat baik dan jaga diri elakkan buat dosa barulah Allah nak perkenankan doa kite. Perhaps Allah nak dengar rintihan hambanya, yang sebelum ni tak pepernah pun nak meminta dengan bebetul mengharap...”

Fikri terdiam, tapi rase macam diam nak tido je. Mudah- mudahan he got da message. “ok la sugar. Makcik rase fikri is sleepy rite now. Nak continue sleeping ek? Now before u enter da hibernating mode, give me one sweet kiss on my cheek first.”

Huh, bebudak. Memang penat melayan tapi worth it. Time chatting dengan diorang la nak access their understanding and comprehension on Islam and other things too. Matanya memerhati fikri menaiki tangga, then terdengar pintu ditutup. Bacaan yang tergendala tadi disambung. May God bless u, my little nephew.

p/s: frankly speaking, kawin memang susah. Bukan takat issue gushing blushing lovey dovey, couple of da year, wedding of da year tapi more toward responsibilities. Nak mendidik dan asuh diri dan sorang lagi, barula namanya sehidup semati sesama di syurga. Kalau takat nak bersama and pull stop, kat neraka pun boleh together-gether.
Sum times it’s more difficult nak tegur da beloved ones when they made mistakes especially dalam hal2 amal maaruf nahi mungkar, lebih2 lagi dalam hal syariat, dalam bab hukum hakam. tak kan nak seselamba badak sumatera plak suh berenti smoking or cakap "eh tak kan tatau kut laki tak boleh pakai gelang and rantai la" on da spot or suh tutup aurat, pakai tudung on da dot.
We’re fear of uncertainty, scared of da reaction. Tapi kene ingat tegur tandanya sayang... bukan ke?

Thursday, August 23, 2007

tHinG sHe DiD...

She was watching TV on one Sunday night, biasa la lepak dengan penuh semangat kesukanan when the storyline just reminded her on how mean a woman could be once she was betrayed in love after all she had to give in her relationship. Yeah, that happens when love kills love, it cuts into so deep. So guys, beware! Hehe...dengan perlahan 2 belah tangan diregang. She is not a feminist after all but just trying to understand to what extent the kindness, gentleness, softness, compassion and affection of a woman would perish and turn her drastically into a heartless and unpredictable creature which was willingly to do anything in order to take revenge due to the double-cross made by her own boyfriend. Bile fikir balik macam tengok citer seram la pulak, padahal citer chintan chintun sadis jer.

Tak tau la pulak ape sebenarnye lesson da director nak kasik kat viewers from da story tapi pada dia la kan, it leads to several Questions:
What would you do, after all you had done for your love one, then you felt like he’s slowly outdistanced you over da time? What would you feel if the love that had been grown for years simply slipping away from your life just like grains of sand, slipping through your fingers? - no appreciation at all, being overshadowed for life by his former girlfriend, she is the one in his mind - his first priority, of course the very first thing coming trough his mind each and every single day while you, the one who is willingly be by his side is being neglected as if you never exist in his life.
Any violence on earth will not happen without reason even how minuscule, full of loopholes it is - the same goes in this situation. Would the unfaithful behavior of her boyfriend be the main factor which drives her to commit an aggressive behavior as she ever did for example, shot the former girl of his when he on one particular day said that he no longer feels like he wants to keep the relationship between them alive? Huh, dia mengeluh kuat. Haila…adult’s relationship: a bunch of sinful people stuck in da very complicated miscommunication.

Melamun sensorang kat depan tv. Was he considered to be morally guilty for the cold bloody murder as he could be described as an irresponsible man who just after the girl for fun, for an instant replacement, or just for a company at night? Was he guilty for not trying not even once, not even a little bit or not even at all explaining the reality of their relationship which considered as a failure for he was not trying his best to make even a single shot to love the girl and forget his past?
Instead of doing so, he let the past clung with him and never went far. Was he guilty for never letting the relationship alive rather that let it died without a grave? Was he guilty for letting her waiting for him wasting most of her life hoping for a day when he suddenly changed and realized that the past should be a history and the life must go on? Or was she the one who has been so-called plain stupid and didn’t want to accept the reality, still hoping for something that was impossible and super unachievable? Ntahla..memang jadik orang besar banyak giga masalah. Tanpa sedar dia menggeleng kepala yang dah mula pening mintak tido.

Perlahan-lahan tangan diangkat untuk mengurut pelipis. Problem with the people in this world nowadays is that they don’t want to change and let the past simply being part of them until at one particular point they will no longer want to appreciate and show their concern for people around them. They start confusing themselves and others plus no longer have interest in discovering new life.
Sounds pathetic but yeah it’s typical. They keep making themselves busy by chasing something which is impossible and stop thinking about the people around them that still alive and willingly to share their pains and grieves. Come on! For these people who may stumble in this situation, please think about people around you. Appreciating them is the very best thing that you could do in this world before you lose them one day. In life, there’s no turning back.
Life must go on.
And for those who felt like they are kind of victims in this condition, please don’t give up. Give a lot of chances for this type of people to change and try to understand the phase now they have gone through. If there is so obvious that he no longer wants to commit in the relationship, I supposed you get the hint that he is never going to be your Mr. Right .If he has closed the door for you, then it’s the suitable time to make a move, “leave the key back to his door” and walk away from his life to start a brand new life. Go and search for the real man that full of commitment. Don’t forget that may be the latter is a way better than the former. Thing like this always happens, never a fairytale.


Warning sign. Now mata dah berat tahap kene hempap batu, tak boleh tahan punyer. To sum up, there is a rationale when no premarital relationship is allowed in Islam. Some may think that Islam is a religion with to much do’s and don’ts. Teringat time kecik dulu, mama cakap there is always the reasons why something should be done and others shouldn’t. Mula2 dengar mama cakap terus buat gaya tak puas hati sebab sumer benda jahat yang dia buat asyik tak been approved je dengan mama tapi bile dah besar, orang kata dah cerdik skit baru she started to realize that all the laws and orders so do the prohibitions made by the Lord Above are for and only for the goodness’ sake of the mankind.
Lambat pick up, tertatih belajar mencarik rahmah di balik perintah, hikmah dan kasih sayang di balik amaran. Sooner or later, by hook or by crook each one of us will be given chances to understand what lies beneath His rules. Sikit2 kalau pun tak semua. Dia nak belajar percaya dan selalu yakin that there are always the paramount explanations for each rule He wants us to abide by, we just don’t know them all yet as we are not wise enough to discover them pieces by pieces - it may be difficult to arrange each piece of the jigsaw puzzle in its place with the limited time to live the world.

Take this as example. Islam only approves the kind of relationship between opposite genders which legally unites by a marriage. In short, get married if you want an intimate relationship with the opposite sex, there is no such a thing like try and error as what we have been doing in our daily life, may be it is practical in any other field but when we talk about man-woman thingy, we do talk about heart, feelings, chemistry and others which is exactly not only involving two people but the rest of the family. Furthermore if the relationship is failed both will be very much hurt rather than disappointed. It’s about 2 people which are sharing their lives for good which is not a simple matter.

Concern about the possibility of a divorce or an annulment of marriage due to the existence of the third party, Islam has stated since the very beginning “no” to premarital relationship. If she is not ready for a marriage then she supposed not to get involved with a guy. Better to stay away from any sign of communication with only exception in important business such as in class for learning and tutorial sessions, in beneficial discussions and etc but with proper guidelines to obey. Dia menghela nafas. Islam is beautiful. It indeed takes care of the pride and the dignity of women-meaning one good decent lady will not easily go out from her house and simply hanging out with men either in the exclusive five stars outlet or at the quiet alley, right?

Tangan menutup rapat pintu bilik, time ni la rase cam katil tu benda paling menarik on earth. Terus berfikir apsal islam tak kasik premarital relationship. If he has never ever fallen in love with his former girlfriend in the first place, may be the latter one would not be so - called “piss off” that she without any doubt dared to commit such a brutal
murder and at the same time confessed to her boyfriend about the crime that she was deep into even she evidently aware that the risk to get caught red-handed as this was a clear cut crime and breaking the penal code( plus the man in the movie is a police officer!).

Looking at the risk that she might find guilty by the juries in the court of justice which leads to death penalty or life-sentence (murder in some countries is 25 years to lifetime imprisonment and for manslaughter could be 15 to 25 years in jail), any normal person might assume that she is either plain stupid or completely mad at that time which had made her not only failed to think accordingly and killed the girl but also dared to admit to her boyfriend about the crime. Supposed it meant a lot to her as she exactly felt relief to beat her competitor -which what certainly happens when anger and jealousy take control.

What would happen if there is no third party in this case? A high possibility that she would accept the split calmly for she believed that there was no cut in from any party. Or may be there is no separation at all. No separation in premarital coupling if there is no premarital relationship in the first place because every single and each person does aware the fact that relationship between man and woman is one big serious matter to deal with that only well-prepared gentlemen and ladies will get involved in. And if only these ready to get married-people which well-recognized about their responsibilities get involved in marriage, I supposed that we would find a perfect solution to prevent divorce especially among the young couples which had increased currently around the world.

Final thought before she closed her eyes that nite. When Islam prohibits premarital relationship so do other things, it does not want to burden the Muslims but only to maintain the harmony in the particular communities. It is indeed important to seek for explanations rather than simply jump into groundless prejudices. Without any double-crossed or backstabbing or even jealousy nor greed, nobody gets hurt therefore the possibility for the marriage to be proceeded till the death tears them apart is high. One final question: does premarital relationship promoted by certain parties in Malaysia or around the world suitable and could be simply adapted into our culture or to those who claim to have beautiful minds?
malas dah nak fikir, she just switched off da light and recited da doa tido...

P/s: a friend told me if you got series of girlfriends or boyfriends in the past, things will get tough and tougher along your marital life coz you would tend to compare between your newly wedded spouse and those ur x’s. “Human nature. Tak terfikir la skarang tapi nanti boleh je jadik. And common la bile dah kawin nanti yang buruk tu nampak macam lebih overshadowed dari kebaikan kalo dah hilang rase syukur. Tetiba je jadik ala2 assistant malaikat atid tolong carik kesalahan spouse kononnya.” Sambung kawan.

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

nOt Dat tYPe Of LaDy...

...don't try to play me
...for me to call you baby
So you got a Bentley,
got a lotta money
Every girl's your honey excuse me
I'm not that type of lady
...Boy you need to know (you need to know)
That I'm not impressed (that I'm not impressed)
By your fancy talk (by your fancy talk)
or that money you got

Amirah Hanani senyum sensorang sambil habiskan chicken sandwich. Sekejap pandangan dihala ke depan kat kolam ikan tilapia kesayangan atuk, sekejap pulak tertumpu kat screen laptop. Mulut bergerak-gerak terkumat-kamit menyanyikan lagu from camelia ft urban exchange. Headphone dari tadi tak de sign nak ditanggal dari telinga. Ni la saat membahagiakan. Tak yah bace buku, tak yah pi class: makan, tengok tv, tido and memekak tak habis. The whole process is called: menggemukkan diri sendiri.
Back to the song. Suka arr lagu ni, exception da bar part of course. (Caution when you are reading da full version of da lyrics: Jangan pi gatal2 unwind kat club, bar, disco, da zzouk or wutever yang sama lagha denganya.) Just love the lyrics. Witty, confident habis, budget bagus and the best part da gal in the lyrics is soooooo not cheap and desperately friendly. Cayalah.

Mmm, teringat plak time secondary school. Bile tu huh, rase cam dah berabad lama. Zaman parameswara nampak kancil tendang masuk sungai anjing buruan yang escorted dia kut. Tapi believe it or not, time sekolah tu la period yang penting pada dia besides intrauterine period and early childhood stage. Wakakarakatua, medical syllabus merentas kehidupan seharian dengan jayanya, hu.

Why? Because time tu la dia mula blajar usaha escalator kejayaaan macam mane the best way to be untouchable and respectable. Dia untouchable because of 2 things, first: sebab dia once in the blue moon je mencemar duli cakap dengan budak laki yang after the end of form 5 boley dikira tak yah gune calculator brapa minutes and berapa orang je yang diperkenan duli mengadap dia, itu pun sebab emergency habis and the second reason is she never hooked up with any guy. Tak kisah la luar or dalam that sekolah. Clean record. Chop,macam tipu je. Ade la gak sesekali usha2 anak teruna orang but she clearly drew the line. Jangan sampai kene cap gedik.

Bile kengkawan tanya apsal, dia cume angkat kening dengan bahu and simply said, “I’m working hard seeking for their respect, not looking forward to be part of their collection.” Feminist habis la time tu. Sudahnye kengkawan dia buat conclusion baik punye, “ko ni sebenarnye ader hormonal imbalance, sebab tu la tak pernah minat memane laki kat sekolah ni.” Muka time cakap pun serious je, macam doctor tengah diagnose patient.

Time tu dia takat senyum and geleng kepala je la. Nak buat camne. Dedulu dia ade gak rase weird apsal kengkawan dia ni senang jek nak beramah tamah dengan lelaki tapi dia bab2 interpersonal communication dengan opposite sex ni awal2 lagi dah failed. Tak tau la nak cakap ape and nak buat muka macam mane. Then bila fikir balik may be it is the way Allah wants to protect her from ma’siat and the lagha things. Bagus gak cam tu, shielding effect free tak payah sesusah pi training.

“Nor come nigh to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils).” Al Isra’ 17:32

Dia bukanlah baik mane pun, tapi dia rase gal should be valued. Bukan dengan gushy blushy bagi bunga, jenjalan kat taman, belanja makan, dah tu bile jumpe lain, tinggal. Hargai la sangat. The value here is respect. Gals should be respected, baru la mende2 luar alam berkurang.Ramah mesra alam sangat dengan laki, nanti tak pepasal kene ambik kesempatan.
Tapi if tak cakap sangat dengan boys then tetiba couple, lagi haru jadinya. Rase macam ader double standard peringkat ketujuh. Apsal dengan laki tu boleh jual mahal tapi dengan laki nun murah bagai.
Padahal kalo nak dikira sama je level: laki ajnabi a.k.a bukan mahram+ tak de ikatan yang halal tapi layan. Sudahnye karang same je endingnya: no respect, according to her understanding yang tak seberapa ni la. So dengan conclusion yang dia rase macam bernas semacam tu la dia distant herself daripada bermain-main dengan chenta, jiwa, raga, bakul ntah paper kebendenye tu. Play safe, pull stop.

Dan sebab tu jugak la dia kekadang rase jauh hati bila ade sesetengah budak perempuan yang cakap, “aku prefer lagi boys, they made good friends. Tak de nye nak cakap pasal girly stuff, frills and fluffs, pinky stuff or wut not. Susahla nak borak dengan kengkawan perempuan, mane ader yang nak cakap pasal Ryan Guettler, Colin Mackay , Tony hawk or even Tim Duncan.”
Dengan bebudak camni mesti dia tak berapa nak baik. Ntahla, may be sebab rase macam langsung tak being appreciated by her own gender. Ingat balik ape mama cakap, “time tengah single muda remaja belia macam ni la nak berkawan rapat bagai, nak kene buat banyak activities sesama. Nanti time dah kawin, tak dapat nyer lagi nak main luang2 mase dengan all of ur girlfriends. Bile dah kawin, nak kene ikut husband lagi, jaga anak lagi. Dah tak serapat dulu dengan kengkawan perempuan. There’s sumthing that u're gonna miss.”

Dan kata dia pulak kat Nana, “if those guys ade brotherly love, apsal lak da gals can’t have the sisterly love. Come on la, apsal nak criticize or distant diri from our own gender bersungguh bagai. Gals should stick together. Tak kisah la come hell or high water, I meant for good la. Let say yang sum gals suke frills and fluff, pinky stuff. So terima je la seadanya keadaan diorang. If u wanna go for BMX freestyle in da park and vert, in-line skating vert and park, basket, skateboarding ke, sports climbing, motor x hape ke, just do it but tak yah nak allergic plak to one another.”
“ tapi kengkadang aku rase certain perempuan tu terlebih la dengan girlish stuff diorang. Ade yang saje nak amik hati laki via da cheapest way,” Nana tried nak bagi opinion. “ko ni, dah diorang perempuan. Kira normallah if they act as the way they are created. Yang cheap tu bukan girlish, tapi gedik. However it is not one concrete reason to stay away from them and budget macam bagus sebab tak gedik. It is our responsibility to get them back on the right track,” jawabnya senafas.

“u have to know the rules then u can only guess the outcome. It means ko kene tau camne nak jadik perempuan yang dihormati, all the criteria barula ko boleh budget either u deserve to be respected or not, however those criteria are not coming from the guys but according to wutever stated in the holy Koran and the traditions of prophet Muhammad pbuh yang suruh jaga pergaulan antara laki dan perempuan” dia menyambung lepas sipping guava juice before her.
Sipping la sangat, padahal dah teguk sampai ¾ gelas. Dan tak sangka, lepas beberapa tahun hijriah ni bile jumpe, kengkawan still tanye benda yang sama and her answer still da same, cume part conclusion jek yang diorang alter sesedap rase. Her answer still, “women are to be valued and one of the ways to look valuable not vulnerable is to take care of korang punyer pergaulan” then the conclusion from her friends is, “kebal ek ko ni...”

“ya Allah, jadikanlah kami sesuci Maryam, setabah Asiah, dermawan seperti Khadijah, sepenyayang Fatimah dan sebijak Aishah.”